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Many parents and teachers feel like they have lost connection with their teen. If you have or had a child that is depressed you need to read this article. Also when you are a grown up who is dealing with depression you have to read this.
What's going on with the teens of today?
The world is changing, it isn't the way it used to be when you grew up, when I grew up. The world is changing at a fast pace. The technology has given us opportunities and new potentials that were never here before. The creation of every individual human happens much faster. That means that ideas are manifested sooner than before. Constructive creations and the destructive creations enter our world. In the end all creations serve the same: the evolution of humanity.
There are no problems: only opportunities!
The teens of today have got a lot more creative energy they need to express. Thanks to the hard work you all did it is possible now to carry more and more of your soul in a human body. That is cool, but also means creativity needs to be expressed to stay healthy. That asks for new tools and new ways of interacting in the world. The world is luckily changing now, experiencing that the old systems doesn't fit any more. There is no other choice for the world than change. Where there is change there is resistance, so now we see all these labels popping up. Systems that are getting even tighter and problems that seems to grow. More and more people are changing their perspective, and with that safe space for the teens will be created as each second goes by. We will have to, or else our institutions in ten years will be more overloaded with autistic, hyperactive, depressed and aggressive children and teens. There already is a big overload, warning us with big red signs. Luckily we see the origin of this increase. We are the ones that can show how to empower everyone. We are the ones that can show the alternatives in this world.
Waving guilt goodbye in a fear based world
Overall we can say that morality is changing. The way many people experience guilt is different now. That seems to be frightening because guilt is a good reminder of wrong and right and allows us to stick to laws. But......... not when it´s fear based. Teens are carrying more and more of their soul in their body, they have a lot of love they carry within. Love, pure creative energy or in other words sexual energy needs to be expressed. Where there is love, there is no fear. Our human instinct will generally always tell us when we are in danger and give us the right fear signs when we need, no matter how advanced the soul is that is living in the body. It's part of being human. There is also another kind of fear. The emotional kind of fear which so many of our rules and laws are based on.
That will not make so much impact on the teens. We asked for change and here it is!
It is often said that the new children don't have any reference for guilt, and still I do hear around me a lot that children are feeling so guilty. You know why? Because people around them feel guilty! Being sensitive it's easy to pick up emotions from others. Especially when you don't have the guilt inside yourself. Society demands that you feel guilty by doing or not doing certain things. To not visit grandma every week is a burden, being totally relaxed with having a big tummy is a no go these days. So people around these teens feel uncomfortable, they are feeling guilty for what their child or student is doing. Teens feel that. They feel the guilt around them and almost they start to believe they have to feel guilty.
The same counts for fear. We have to be afraid that after good times bad times come, that we lose our savings in this recession. That sickness is really worse, and that we have to follow the rules the church made or else we go to hell. To live in a world where most of the rules are fear based is a challenge. Especially when you feel no fear from yourself. It's so seductive to pick up the fear around you, and to doubt yourself what is wrong with you. Nothing at all of course! There is one good medicine for this: passion pills! To do what makes you happy! It's so easy we almost can't believe it!
Our brain can be conditioned, and most teens have got a conditioned brain. This condition comes from information from the outside, from the input of parents, family, friends, school, work, media etc. The souls of teens know they are divine, god also. They have a strong connection with their soul which tells them what feels right. That's the only true thing that will tell them what to do or not do.
The outside world, especially the media often shows us messages of fear. Teens are often very much in touch with media. They watch television, internet, listen to radio, have their mobile phones with internet, use their Ipods. It helps us to choose carefully what messages we let in our energy field. Especially when you are sensitive. Being a teen, most likely you feel the urge to search for boundaries and discover what life has to offer you. Everything must been seen at least once, must have been experienced. That way you know what you like and dislike.
My child is depressed. What can I do?
There are times your actions can have big consequences for others. Do you want to create constructive and express your love? Or do you feel destruction is the only option you have?
Let's take a look at the school shootings. That is a horrible way of expressing hate, anger and despair.
How come this hate, anger and despair hasn't been noticed earlier?
This isn't strange when you see how schools are built. Many schools having thousands of students. The teachers can't give the students a lot of time. The classes are full with students that are easily bored. The ethics of the students and life looks different than before. To notice that there is something going on with your students isn't always so easy. Many teens know how teachers want them to act. They know what teachers want to hear.
To make a safe space for these teens we have to take our pink sunglasses off, and need to be prepared to look beyond our own paradigms.
We cannot take any responsibility for the actions of other humans, young and old. We aren't responsible for the teen that takes a gun to school and kills students and teachers. We are responsible for our own actions, to express our light and love. We can change so much by expressing our passion and speak our truth. Where there is love there is no fear! We can change the world by making a loving life ourselves no matter where we are, at work, at home or in the supermarket. I work in places with teens who are in crisis situations, fear flows freely in the lives of my clients. My clients can be aggressive and destructive. I learned one thing: where there is love there is no fear. As long as I am in my passion, my environment is safe. By doing that the energy in the room changes and there is no space for fear. I believe that is creating safe space for others so they can heal themselves.
I believe that the teens of today are helped the most by warm loving multidimensional souls, who see beyond. People like you and me. I believe that psychiatrists and regular health institutions can even be destructive, due to the medication they give depressed teens and the labels they put on them. Being aware of your multidimensionality and getting drugs is almost a shortcut to hell. Not for everyone, but for many. It is harder to stay centered and connected to your soul. It can be dangerous because of the energetic disharmonies the medicine can bring. When your teen is very sensitive the most important thing for your teen is to stay centered. I always will advise you as a parent to listen to your own intuition to do what feels the best for you. Every child is different. Every human has got the right to choose life or death. Young and old. There are times due to energetic disbalance the human part of your child wants to leave earth, but the soul isn't planning to leave. Most of the time when your child is depressed it isn't time to leave mother earth yet. Or your child has a new opportunity to choose. There are many alternative healers who can help your child with making this choice and have great tools to help your child with their energetic disbalance.
There are for many teens ways out of depression. There are many human angels who are prepared to support them. While every parent would worry deeply about their child, and probably with the right reasons, after all this is about life and death, the one thing you help your child the most with is trust. Trust your child they will choose what is fit for them. It´s the most difficult thing you can experience as a parent. Mostly because we know the brains of the teens aren't finished growing yet. They cannot see properly what will be the outcome of their actions, they can be impulsive not overseeing what the consequences of their actions are. The most you can do as a parent is let your child feel you trust totally the divine soul your child is. To let your child feel you don´t take responsibility for the soul of your child, that it's an independent free spirit in a human body making its own choices and creations. This can be so difficult. There can be times the human part of your child wants to die to go to home, and the soul of the child who tells you it is not yet time. It can be a good reminder for your child to let him feel home is in our hearts, and can be created right here on earth. Show them how wonderful the world is, by making heaven on earth yourself. As a parent you cannot sit still, but you will have to walk your talk by experiencing yourself how wonderful life on earth is. There is no greater example in the entire universe for your child than that!
Many times all these teens need is a safe space to express themselves in, so the creative energy can be expressed. It's pure energy from their soul. The outwards movement of expression will make the magnetism of their body turn around, making the energy move outwards instead of inwards. The inward movement of this creative energy is what can cause depression, anxiety, high blood pressure and more illness. I believe many of the illnesses humans experience are energy diseases and/or a lack of giving the human body what it needs. Finding out what is serving your spirit and body the best is a helpful tool in experience balance in your life.
Knowing now that creations goes fast these days means that teens also easily create an environment that will match with their vibrational energy. Changes can go so fast. Of course the teens of today are very gifted with their creative abilities! Imagine how the world will look in 10, 20 years with these children popping in!
In this article I focused on purpose a bit more on the challenges that may occur living with so much creative energy. But of course the gifts that these teens bring us, are enormous!
That makes it even more sad when such talented people are denying the grandness they are.They are challenging lessons, tickling the soul to go beyond and experiencing new things after having lived so many lives on earth. Their lives just have to be challenging to make the journey to earth interesting enough! Isn't that funny!
We'll never know what for instance a murderer or burglar already mastered in his lifetimes, this could be his last life on earth working with his last life lesson.
Love,
Elleke
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